Sunday, August 26, 2012

Tip #35: Remember that YOU MATTER

Angela Maiers, an educator, consultant and author of the book The Passion Driven Classroom, has written what she calls "The YOU MATTER Manifesto." Please, read it because it's excellent. In it, she lists eight things we should all remember about ourselves, to convince us that we are more important than we think, that we all matter. And she also mentions that because we all need to hear these two words often, we should be telling people who matter in our lives why is that so. So here is my attempt at telling all of you, my dear readers, that I truly know that you are all essential in my life. Here are her points and my comments in parenthesis. Please, believe every word, because it is true:
  1. You are enough (to make this world better, to make my life better. I do love you the way you are.)
  2. You have influence (Much more than you think. You influence me to be a better person every day.)
  3. You are a genius (You, somehow, always manage to contribute to my well being.)
  4. You have a contribution to make (in the lives of your kids, your friends, your co-workers, me.)
  5. You have a gift that others need (In you, I have found comfort, love, knowledge.)
  6. You are the change (It is really up to us. Nobody else will do it for us. But, like she says, a simple smile can already start something.)
  7. Your actions define your impact (You have helped me with your companionship, your lessons, your food, your kindness, your gifts, all of which you have given me in great amounts and always with open arms.)
  8. You matter
She also has a TED Talk which I recommend, particularly if you're an educator, and in her introduction she mentions this: 
This is not an ego thing. This is a DNA thing. We were created for significance and one of the most dangerous things that can happen to us as individuals, as organizations, as a community is the feeling that we don't matter.
That's why I wanted to write this post. To tell you very loud: YOU MATTER. You have made an enourmous difference in my life (and in the lives of many others). I'm lucky to have each and everyone near my heart.

And I also say to myself, I MATTER, because I now know, more than ever, that all those points apply to me as well: I am enough. I have influence. I am a genius (not sure how yet, but I'm sure I'll find something), I have a contribution to make, I have a gift (which I think is my smile), I am the change (by smiling, I share happiness instantly), my actions define my impact. I try to walk the talk. I try to give away because I know it comes back multiplied.

And let me share here a shorter, but very uplifting, version of her talk. I hope you enjoy it!


  1. Thank you so much for capturing the spirit of the mission and helping me spread this important message. YOU matter!

  2. Pili, me ha encantado. Muchas gracias por hacernos sentir útiles e importantes. Este tip me ha recordado la película "What a wonderful life".